My life is a little overwhelming right now and family just does not help sometimes. I just wish that people didn't have to talk about other people. If you have something to say to me, just say it to me lets not act childish and talk behind my back...really? I have way too much stuff on my plate right now to deal with people that are acting like they are 12.

-My time is limited, extremely limited and if you can not understand that I do not have the time to just sit around and my parents house all day and hang out...that is not MY fault. I have done nothing wrong. Instead I have a house to take care of, a husband, two kids, doctor appointments up the wazoo, and specialists coming to the house once a week. When I do have a moment it is either spent with my family, friends or parents.
-Taking my time away from my daughter and her friends at HER birthday party is not a place to come and talk to me about something that in the end did not matter at THAT moment. That was so not the time or the place for that. I am so sorry that you think you are that important to come and talk to me about such sensitive issues at that moment.
- If you want to borrow something of mine just ask and I will most likely always let you borrow it...the problem comes in when YOU do not ask and I find out about, or someone just allowed you to use it thinking it was okay with me. There might have been a few things that I did not want anyone else to have because they are special to be but in the end whatever I did not want to keep to myself is able to be used if you just ASK!
-Just because I do not do the things that you like to do or the things that you want me to do with you does not mean that I do not like you. If anyone knows me at all they know that I do not like to go shopping for fun, take dance lessons, have spa days...I will get a pedicure but thats it. If you want me to go running, walking, play basketball, play soccer, hiking, or anything athletic I will do it but if that is something you do not like I will not get upset with you for it.
-Friendship can come naturally or it can be something you work on. If you want to be friends with me I can not be the one to do all of the work. You, as well need to put forth the effort. Don't say that I do not like you and I do not want to be your friend unless you have also put forth the effort to have a relationship with me.
- Any type of shower, bridal or baby shower the host is not the one who picks who is invited to the shower rather the person whom the shower is for. If I have thrown a baby or bridal shower and you were not invited again that is not MY fault. I have no control over who is invited I just do the invites and send them out. Im really sorry if you think I had anything to do with that and that you think you have to be invited to everything that I do. Thats not how it works.

If you have no idea what I am talking about in the post than Im sorry you had to read it cause I am just venting and it does not apply to you at all. :)